Double Negative

Q#1: There's something weighing down your heart. Do you: (A) Go to someone, take the initiative, and tell them your troubles? or (B) Take a passive role, and wait for someone to ask you what's wrong?

Q#2: Here's another side. You see that something's just 'not right' with someone. Do you: (A) Go to them, take the initiative, and ask them what's wrong? or (B) Take a passive role, and wait until they come to you and ask for help?

When you find yourself sitting with a large group of people, but unable and perhaps even unwilling to share the true burdnes of your heart, to try and think of people, or even just one person that you could share your mind with, but not be able to think of one...what do you do in that kind of situation? You can either act or wait. When you find yourself staring at someone who's "just not right", what do you do? again, you can either act or wait. So what happens when you have a problem, but you sit on your butt and wait for the other side to take the first step OR you can sense something is not quite right, but you sit on your butt and don't offer help until the other side takes the first step and asks. What ends up happening when there's a double pick on the negative? methinks that both sides lose.